tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post1627154766537778040..comments2024-03-13T13:21:53.956+02:00Comments on Amel's Realm: The Wrong RelationshipAmelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-36711893344729646432012-02-06T12:21:48.734+02:002012-02-06T12:21:48.734+02:00@Michelle: OH OH OH OH OH...another story from you...@Michelle: OH OH OH OH OH...another story from you? I can't waittttt he he he he he...<br /><br />And that's exactly my point about beauty. If we see it from a person's POV, we'll "never win" he he...'coz it's really personal.Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-49695999713501308282012-02-06T12:12:50.528+02:002012-02-06T12:12:50.528+02:00That's a great post, Amel.
Beauty... I think ...That's a great post, Amel.<br /><br />Beauty... I think real beauty comes from within - people who shine with God in them always seem the most beautiful, regardless of age, face, body.<br /><br />I never felt beautiful either. Growing up there always seemed a "too" added when grown-ups talked about me. too thin at first, then later... too fat! I never got the balance right. :-|<br /><br /><br />Your story of you and the bad boy made me grin. I'll email you the story of my bad boy. It's too long for a reply. ;-)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02284595314525240584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-7970251670478896862012-02-03T21:14:29.909+02:002012-02-03T21:14:29.909+02:00@ChicagoWing: I'm HAPPY to hear about your hap...@ChicagoWing: I'm HAPPY to hear about your happy relationship, Vince. :-D Yep, we can all learn from our mistakes and hopefully we don't forget the lessons he he...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-36806925473933514362012-02-02T19:39:29.961+02:002012-02-02T19:39:29.961+02:00I think that physical beauty may be desirable, but...I think that physical beauty may be desirable, but it doesn't really sustain a relationship. I look for personality and think that's much more important. My ex wife is very nice looking, but her personality isn't compatible with mine at all. My personality with my current girlfriend meshes wonderfully and I'm very happy as a result. <br />I had no idea they did those type of surgeries in Korea & other places on the eyelids, wow. <br />Amel, they say everything happens for a reason. So, by now, you know that although the relationship didn't end well, it helped with your relationship with R2, and that's what COUNTS.Qualityservice44https://www.blogger.com/profile/03027691601855886231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-73652253787986508582012-02-01T20:52:25.856+02:002012-02-01T20:52:25.856+02:00@Elena: THANK YOU for your compliment and kind wor...@Elena: THANK YOU for your compliment and kind words. I think as I age, I've learnt more things about beauty in general he he...<br /><br />In terms of white beauty, you should see how many different kinds of products with whitening for people in Indo. Native Indo generally have slightly darker skin than us the Chinese counterparts (more similar to Thai people's skin for example). <br /><br />So yes, I can understand what you're saying about your experience within the black community. It IS really sad indeed. The pressure, oh the pressure...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-18615603250331789052012-02-01T20:40:00.401+02:002012-02-01T20:40:00.401+02:00Beauty is indeed such a tricky thing.
You looked...Beauty is indeed such a tricky thing. <br /><br />You looked beautiful to me in the pictures you posted. And I'm sure you've thought about this, but I think that whole "big eyes" thing is incredibly culturally biased. I remember when I used to teach an after school program back in the US with a largely black community, they would argue over who had the lightest skin. There is no reason for that besides a globalized bias in favor of "white" beauty. And it makes me mad and breaks my heart. But correct me if I'm wrong on this one; you know far more about the ins and outs of Indo culture than I do. :) <br /><br />Anyway, from what I know of you, you have every reason to feel beautiful, both in terms of what you look like and who you are. And I'm glad you've learned something from "the wrong relationship." :)Elenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08648484965005836045noreply@blogger.com