tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post307374616077461153..comments2024-03-13T13:21:53.956+02:00Comments on Amel's Realm: Paradigm ShiftAmelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-66523045172326550952007-10-23T18:51:00.000+03:002007-10-23T18:51:00.000+03:00Hi, LS!That's SO true...effective communication is...Hi, LS!<BR/><BR/>That's SO true...effective communication is worthless without forgiveness, 'coz humans will disappoint one another no matter what, even when they don't mean to do it. <BR/><BR/>I still have A LOT to learn about not keeping score cards, though. Every now and then I don't realize that I still keep score cards...and only then I throw them out. But lately mostly it's my "expectation" score cards instead of other people's wrongdoings.<BR/><BR/>Yep, that's also true about God's whispers. If only we listened he he he...<BR/><BR/>Yeah, I'm making one little step at a time to grow here. THANKS for sharing and for encouraging me! ;-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-41363210483092121252007-10-23T18:45:00.000+03:002007-10-23T18:45:00.000+03:00Hi Amel;I loved this article; I believe that you a...Hi Amel;<BR/><BR/>I loved this article; I believe that you are speaking for a LOT of people out there who are very similar.<BR/><BR/>My wife and I often get asked how we can possibly be so happy together. Everybody has heard that you must communicate, but of course communication is worthless if neither person is willing to compromise on the vast majority of things that really are not important.<BR/><BR/>The more important issue we have found is to forgive and forget, move on. We never keep score, we forgive and then it is as if the issue never came up. We never go to bed angry. When a person keeps score everybody loses! If people don’t keep score everybody wins. We ALL need forgiveness.<BR/><BR/>I love your words about “stumbling blocks”, how very true. It seems that sometimes God has to use some pretty big stumbling blocks out there to get peoples attention. Nobody likes to suffer but often that is when He is “turning up the volume”, there would be no need to turn up the volume if we would just listen for His whispers.<BR/><BR/>The more you interact with God the more the relationship grows.Livingswordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10619320099363943460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-83775141306382358932007-10-23T11:13:00.000+03:002007-10-23T11:13:00.000+03:00Jay: THANKS, Jay! I'll check it out! ;-DJennifer: ...Jay: THANKS, Jay! I'll check it out! ;-D<BR/><BR/>Jennifer: THANK YOU for your kind words!!! It's nice to get affirmation from others 'coz it's hard to gauge my own self objectively he he he...Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-65718592567995620882007-10-23T03:43:00.000+03:002007-10-23T03:43:00.000+03:00Hi Amel...I for one think you are a living testame...Hi Amel...<BR/><BR/>I for one think you are a living testament to the truth of thinking positively!<BR/><BR/>You have such a bright and sunny and optimistic sense of life!<BR/><BR/>It is fabulous!<BR/><BR/>JenJennifer Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04593797320592103928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-27037881222822536912007-10-23T00:21:00.000+03:002007-10-23T00:21:00.000+03:00there's a technorati link train at my blog!you can...there's a technorati link train at my blog!<BR/><BR/>you can join it here!<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://jaysmoney.blogspot.com/2007/10/technorati-link-train.html" REL="nofollow">here</A>Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479640289038431760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-65428090114833237872007-10-22T16:24:00.000+03:002007-10-22T16:24:00.000+03:00Hi, Karen!Glad you enjoyed it. It took me a while ...Hi, Karen!<BR/><BR/>Glad you enjoyed it. It took me a while before I could answer your questions he he he...I LOVE such questions 'coz I LOVE probing deep in my mind. ;-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-54069724416373098892007-10-22T16:23:00.000+03:002007-10-22T16:23:00.000+03:00Another enlightening post from my good Buddy!!Read...Another enlightening post from my good Buddy!!<BR/><BR/>Reading your blog is a joy to me!! Keep it up. You fan base is growing!WaterLearnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08139805235427951649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-23113324603763149142007-10-22T13:25:00.000+03:002007-10-22T13:25:00.000+03:00Hi, Bobby!THANKS for sharing your innermost self. ...Hi, Bobby!<BR/><BR/>THANKS for sharing your innermost self. I'm HAPPY that you're not depressed and that you believe in God AND yourself. :-))))<BR/><BR/>Yup, I will try my best to stay positive and love myself. Moving to Finland's given me the challenge to love myself despite myself even more than if I had stayed back in Indo. ;-D<BR/><BR/>YOU TOO, Bobby, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! ;-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-9387752601223940482007-10-22T13:15:00.000+03:002007-10-22T13:15:00.000+03:00I lived hating myself most of my life. Everything ...I lived hating myself most of my life. Everything bad that happened to me I thought was because I was born under a dark cloud. I thought any good that happened would for sure be crushed by something horrible.<BR/><BR/>I was wrong. For the 1st time in my life, I am not depressed. I do believe in God and that has allowed me to believe in myself.<BR/><BR/>I will admit my life is lonely right now but even so...I am somehow happy:)<BR/><BR/>Stay positive and love yourself because you deserve your own love!Bobby Revellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05225540511858755945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-92103229217370809072007-10-22T10:47:00.000+03:002007-10-22T10:47:00.000+03:00Blur Ting: Yeah, you're quite right about that, to...Blur Ting: Yeah, you're quite right about that, too. Once I realized that I felt better by applying his theories, I got hooked he he he he he he he...THANKS for your encouragement, Blur! ;-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-19607023858951470932007-10-22T04:58:00.000+03:002007-10-22T04:58:00.000+03:00Wow, I'm really happy for you... that you have mad...Wow, I'm really happy for you... that you have made a tremendous change to your life. I think it's not just the book but the reader (you) was willing to make that change. It's your determination that made the difference. Well done!Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.com