tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post5420628321375942843..comments2024-03-13T13:21:53.956+02:00Comments on Amel's Realm: Hypocrisy: Where's The Line?Amelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-9054995048634872382009-04-28T22:40:00.000+03:002009-04-28T22:40:00.000+03:00Ershinta: THANKS for the input. VERY interesting. ...Ershinta: THANKS for the input. VERY interesting. :-))) And I agree completely that harmonizers can be perceived as hypocrites.Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-3322230695729488682009-04-28T11:54:00.000+03:002009-04-28T11:54:00.000+03:00There's this personality theory (cant remember wha...There's this personality theory (cant remember what its called) that says that Some people are harmonizers and thus will try to avoid confrontations and fights at all times. And then there are the motivators, drivers and something else that I cant remember. So..I guess how you act on that particular 'scene' depends partly on your personality. Harmonizers can come across very wrongly though..some might think they are hypocrites, liars or even gutless..Ershintahttp://www.vidneystfamily.webnode.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-44315139986133164552009-04-22T18:51:00.000+03:002009-04-22T18:51:00.000+03:00Blur Ting: THANKS for sharing your view!!! :-D
An...Blur Ting: THANKS for sharing your view!!! :-D<br /><br />Anita: It's interesting what you say about Asians hmmmhhh...in this case, am I more Asian or not? Hmmm...<br /><br />I'm not asking if one is better than the other. I'm just asking what you think and whether or not you consider that action as hypocrisy. Just to gather different opinions.<br /><br />Vince: GREAT conclusion!!! I agree totally with what you said. :-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-87777550083440779002009-04-22T18:48:00.000+03:002009-04-22T18:48:00.000+03:00people have the right to pick their own fights (un...people have the right to pick their own fights (unless it's something extremely important) and in this case, there is no sense getting into an argument if she doesn't want to.Qualityservice44https://www.blogger.com/profile/03027691601855886231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-83515333751544708192009-04-22T13:37:00.000+03:002009-04-22T13:37:00.000+03:00Ada email yang kelewat gitu ya? I think it's a kno...Ada email yang kelewat gitu ya? I think it's a known view that when Asians say yes, it does NOT mean he/she agrees with you. <br />I think when the girl says 'yes' it doesn't mean she agrees, while being a hypocrite means that she does agree but still does something contrary.<br />Aside from that, different people have different needs. One friend values peace more, while the other values justice more. Who am I to say one is better than the other?Anita Feinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4756387640551134005.post-6674244206599996812009-04-22T03:53:00.000+03:002009-04-22T03:53:00.000+03:00I agree with your POV because she takes the time t...I agree with your POV because she takes the time to listen to her MIL's advise but in the end makes her own decision. Ultimately the child is hers and she's paying for the education.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.com