As an introvert whose battery gets charged when I can have my "me time" (staying away from crowd/people/human interaction), ever since I've gotten to know so many faces in this small village through my job, whenever I get out these days I have to keep my eyes more open 'coz the village's downtown is a small place and I'm bound to meet at least a few of my regular customers. That means I should be ready to smile and say hi and sometimes even chit-chat with them.***
On normal days I enjoy doing that, but on days when I want to recharge, I avoid interacting with other people as much as I can (the only exceptions are hubby, MIL, BIL and SIL). On those "abnormal" days, I prefer staying home or I'd take the shortest route to the supermarket to avoid meeting too many familiar faces. Meeting new people too often has always drained me. I remember that one relative of mine was worried that I'd never get married 'coz I worked from home a lot during the years when I only worked as a book translator LOL!!! He suggested to my parents to encourage me to be active at church (join a church activity group or something), even though I felt perfectly fine with my life and my limited number of friends/human interaction LOL!!! I'm glad that I enjoy being home and that R2 enjoys being home, as well. In summer it's nice to sit outside in the garden swing, sunbathe while reading a book without having to interact too much with other people on my "abnormal" days. In winter I prefer exercising inside the house. I'm also glad that R2 and I enjoy being together at home and that we get along well. Otherwise where else would my safe haven be on those "abnormal" days? LOL!!!
*** This
reminds me of sometime last week when I went to a supermarket and then
an old lady chatted me up about my family etc. It was nice 'coz I don't
remember having chatted with her at work before, but she did recognize
me 'coz of my work. And the perk of having my job is that people who
know my job are more willing to talk to me despite my foreign face. :-D
Anyway, I found this AWESOME video clip accidentally last night and I'd love sharing it with you. Here's the description of the video clip: "Fran & Marlo Cowan (married 62 years in 2008 when this was taken)
playing impromptu recital together in the atrium of the Mayo Clinic."
Tried one quiz at youniverse.com (How My Mind Works) and got this result that described me to a tee!!!! HO HOOOHHHH!!!!
Interaction:
You often remain on the sidelines in social situations choosing to observe rather than participate. Having said that, when you feel comfortable in a social setting, you come alive and enjoy interacting with like-minded people. You even have the chance to exercise that cheeky sense of humour of yours.
So remember, my blogger friends, that in real life I may not be so talkative like in my blog, but when I'm comfy enough, then I'll start babbling for hours on end ha ha ha ha...
As social beings, we need to interact and share our thoughts and ideas with other human beings. Through our interaction with other human beings, we can learn SO many more things that we couldn't possibly learn on our own. I've enjoyed the benefits of joining an online forum that helped me find information about what I needed to do before I could move to Finland. Through that forum, I found my first friends in Finland.
Sometimes there are no better people who can understand you than those who have gone through the same experiences, don't you agree? If you click on Jewish Chat, then you can share with other Jewish about anything on earth. I believe that true friends can be found through the internet. Look at how many blogger friends I have found! And more than that, I found my husband through the internet he he he...
So if you feel that you want to extend your world and find other Jewish friends, why don't you check out this free site?
