Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Marital Bliss

Last night I had the best "nighttime rendezvous" than EVER before!!! It just kept on getting better and better and last night topped it all off. I never thought it could get any better than that! I think my mood was set right by some reasons.

1. Hubby warned me last night, "If you receive a package in the mail tomorrow, don't open it, OK?" HE HE HE HE HE HE...It must be my BIRTHDAY gift!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYY!!! At first I teased him by saying that I'd open it (I have a habit of opening everything that comes to our mailbox, except personal letters), but then I promised not to do it. I CAN'T WAIT to see what it is HUE HE HE HE HE HE HE HE HE...*big grin*

2. I had a talk with my Estonian friend prior to our Finnish lesson. I asked her if her hubby was Finnish and she said that her hubby had died already. Ugh...I felt SO bad asking about it. With broken English (her Finnish is WAY better than her English), she told me that it had been hard on them (she has three sons) at first, but since it happened 8 years ago, it wasn't so painful anymore. Then I asked her what happened. She said it was an accident. She said that whenever she thought about it, she felt sad, but she tried not to think about it so often nowadays. Her youngest son is only about 8 years old, so I imagine that he must've been just a baby when the accident happened! Goodness!!!

That conversation made me feel SO grateful that I'm still given another day with my hubby. I'm SO LUCKY to be able to love him and be loved by him another day. That really helped me set the mood for last night. I want to make the best out of my time with him. I don't want to regret not having given my best when the time's up. Tick tock tick tock...nobody knows when their time's up.

So far my marriage's started off pretty well. We haven't had any fights yet (differences, yes, but no arguments - bantering? Definitely! We love joking with each other!) I hope it's still going to be like this all the time until the end of it when one of us dies (or perhaps both of us die at the same time, who knows?). All in all, I never thought that being married could be THIS MAGICAL! There's just something amazing in serving each other equally and getting our love tanks filled up to the brim. My cup's still runneth over. I couldn't have expected a better life than this. THANK YOU, Lord, for having given me today to be spent with him!!! I've been SO blessed!!! ;-D

Today when I woke up, this song kept on repeating in my let me share with you the lyrics of a song that I've always loved he he he he...Our English teacher in High School made us listen to this song and write down the blanks in the lyrics that she had photocopied for us, then she made us sing this song together he he he...I'll ALWAYS remember that lesson! ;-D

God Will Make a Way
Don Moen

God will make a way,

Where there seems to be no way

He works in ways we cannot see

He will make a way for me

He will be my guide

Hold me closely to His side

With love and strength for each new day

He will make a way, He will make a way.

By a roadway in the wilderness,
He'll lead me

And rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and earth will fade

But His Word will still remain

He will do something new today.

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  1. There's a bunch of people here who'd love to know what is inside the package as well he he he he he...

  2. Choc Mint Girl: HE HE HE...You all have to wait till tomorrow 'coz my bday's tomorrow. *grin*

  3. Hey I thought I have left my comment here! where is it?

    itchy itchy hands what to open that pressie...
    guessie guessie what is inside from my honey bunniee...


  4. Trinity: HE HE HE HE...Sometimes it happens. Yeah, itchy hands indeed. I still have to wait, though HUE HE HE HE HE HE:..

  5. It's great that both your love is strong. I hope to hear more of such loving relationships from other couples too. Isn't it such a wonderful feeling? I feel so blessed to be with CH too. Though he's not as expressive as your hubby (and I'm not as expressive as you too), we know we love each other very much :-)

    I think I should tell him I love and appreciate him more often :-)

  6. Blur Ting: Yeah, it's such a WONDERFUL feeling indeed. ;-D Glad to hear you have had such a WONDERFUL relationship with CH, as well.

    And well, it took time to get used to be expressive verbally (I was never expressive verbally when I was in Indo), but after some time, you'll get used to it. And it DOES feel good to let someone know how you REALLY feel inside verbally! ;-D Esp. seeing the twinkle in their eyes after we say those words...PRICELESS!!! *Cheshire-cat grin*

  7. Well Randy and I are still going strong after 13 years. We still joke around, try to go out without the kids at least once a month for a date night. I feel the love!!

  8. Kasper: GREAT to hear that, Dawn!!! ;-D Joking around IS important, isn't it? It livens things up he he he he...Dating without the kids, eh? I have no kids yet, but I'll remember your advice when I have kids later on. Cheers to LOVE!!! ;-D

  9. That's a great song! Our choir sings it at church.

  10. Kathy: Yeah, I also used to sing it in my old church he he he he...